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𩺠Ethical Dilemmas in End-of-Life Nursing Care
Real-world scenarios nurses face with family wishes vs. patient dignity
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šæ Introduction: The Emotional Crossroads of Care
End-of-life care remains one of the most emotionally charged and ethically complex areas in nursing. Every day, nurses face the challenge of balancing medical realities, patient dignity, and family expectationsāoften under immense pressure. As healthcare professionals, nurses stand at the intersection of compassion, ethics, and advocacy when decisions about life and death unfold.

āļø The Core Dilemma: Autonomy vs. Family Wishes
One of the most common ethical struggles arises when a patientās expressed wishes conflict with those of their family.
A patient may have an advance directive requesting no life-prolonging interventionsāyet their family pleads for āeverything possibleā to be done.
Nurses, who often spend the most time with the patient, must navigate the emotional terrain between respecting the patientās autonomy and supporting grieving relatives.
In these moments, nurses not only deliver care but also act as mediators, advocates, and compassionate listeners.
ā¤ļø Case Reflections from the Field
Case 1: The Silent Goodbye ā A terminally ill patient had requested no resuscitation, but during a sudden cardiac arrest, family members demanded immediate intervention. The nurse, bound by the DNR order, followed protocolālater facing intense emotional backlash from the family.
Case 2: The Cultural Challenge ā In a multicultural hospital unit, a nurse encountered a family who insisted on continuing aggressive treatment due to religious beliefs, despite medical consensus on futility. Open, culturally sensitive dialogue became key to easing tensions and finding mutual understanding.
These stories highlight the importance of ethical frameworks, empathy, and institutional support in guiding nurse decision-making.
š§ The Role of Ethics Committees and Communication
Ethics committees play a crucial role in resolving such conflicts. Nurses are encouraged to:
Document clearly patientsā wishes and discussions.
Communicate consistently with families and physicians.
Seek institutional ethics support when conflicts intensify.
Open communication not only reduces moral distress but also ensures that decisions align with both ethical and legal standards.
š Finding Balance: Dignity in Every Decision
End-of-life care is not just about prolonging or ending lifeāitās about preserving dignity, comfort, and respect in every moment. Nurses often carry the emotional weight of these decisions long after a shift ends. Institutions must provide mental health support, reflective spaces, and ongoing ethics training to help nurses navigate these profound experiences.
š¬ In Summary
Ethical dilemmas at lifeās end remind us that nursing is as much a moral profession as it is a medical one. Upholding patient dignity while honoring family grief requires courage, compassion, and continuous ethical reflection.
As one nurse put it:
āWe donāt just care for bodiesāwe care for stories, beliefs, and goodbyes.ā